Friday, August 15, 2008

Babysitter Success

I hired a sitter last night. I warned her that Eliza may cry...for an extended period. I prepared Eliza during the day, telling her that Elizabeth would be coming over to play with her. The real secret to my success was this: Don't let your T.V.-loving-toddler watch T.V. during the day, but promise her that she can watch a show with the sitter. When Elizabeth walked in Eliza ran up to her and said, "Hi Elizabeth, you wanna watch a show?!". That was it. I put Dora on and tried to say goodbye, but I was obviously interrupting. A complete success, which is nice because Elizabeth is watching Eliza 2 days next week while I work (I start back to work on Tues. and daycare opens on Thurs.).

12 comments:

Christi and Abbey said...

Hi Tiffany,
Just catching up on your blog, I got so far behind. Anyway, it is all so exciting with the possible move and b2!! You are such mover and a shaker. I had no clue that single women could adopt domestically and would love to follow your journey. I thought they didn't even let singles try since birthmom's like to pick couples. Will it be through foster care adoption? Anyway, I can always relate so much to your posts and Eliza's phases. Abbey has been sleeping with me since we got to China and I am going to watch for the open window to get her into her own room and bed. Don't think at all that you won't get married, I definitely think that if you want to you will. Right guy, right time and place. You seem to be ready but there's always a bigger picture. Maybe b2 comes first or maybe this guy will be ready along the way. Thank you for the TV sitter tip too, plan to use it.

~ Alison said...

Great idea! Things change so fast around here, its always hard to predict how my girl will respond . . .

We had a sitter every day last week - we made it through with flying colors! Hope your week goes well!!

kitchu said...

Oh, excellent advice! I swear I should keep a notebook near this computer designated for all the great advice I get reading blogs!

Tracy said...

Where did you find your sitter? I am SO READY to use one, but I have no idea where to even start to find one.

Great idea about the tv, my kids are tv hounds!

Mendy said...

Great idea! Thanks! So glad Eliza had a good time with her sitter.

britt said...

Awewsome! Movies always work as incentives for my kids too!!

Anne said...

Can't go wrong with someone named Elizabeth :)
Anne & Elizabeth

K said...

I dread thinking about babysitters, not from my daughter's perspective, but my own. I could hardly handle my baby sister having a sitter, so finally my mom just kept me out of school once in awhile so I could take care of her when my mom had to do something. Perhaps after being a mom for certain amount of time I'll be ready for a night out, but I can't see it happening for quite while. At least I have two friends who I'd trust with her!

laurel said...

I am so glad it worked out! Feeling bad that your summer is over. I think summer break should be the 9 months and work should be the 3.

Joey/Denny/Emma said...

I totally understand the T.V. working like a charm when it comes to separating from our little ones. I'm glad it works!! And that's exciting about putting your house up; welcome to the club.

Donna said...

You're a genius!

Jen said...

I agree- genius plan!